Relationships come and go. As time flies by we realize the value of having someone who we can share ever-fleeting moments with. Maintaining a relationship requires both time and effort, as does becoming the woman you want to be.
We all want our relationships to be the blissful love-filled fairytale peddled by the folks at Disney. But those of us in the real world realize that it takes a lot of time and effort to keep a relationship going.
The early stages of any relationship are often filled with fun and romance as you both get to discover each other, your likes, dislikes, and pet peeves. Next comes the adapting period when we decide what we like or don’t like about our partner. This is also when we decide on what behaviors we change to accommodate them.
This period of bliss can fade fast if two people are not compatible with each other. Lack of trust, lack of communication, and indifference can bring a relationship to the place where a once-friendly smile now looks forced. This is a familiar story for most women today.
How do I keep the spark?
Have you noticed that some women seem to effortlessly maintain their relationships and keep them happy and fulfilling? This is no accident! There are several subtle changes you could make to keep the man of your dreams.
These tips will help you work on yourself to become the woman he’s always desired. What’s more, they could also help you relight the fire in your relationship.
1. Learn how to maintain your cool
Men admire confident women in the same way that women are attracted to confident men. No one wants to deal with a sobbing woman in times of emergency, so it pays to keep your cool at all times.
2. Show your intelligence
Gone are the days when men went for women who could only hold light conversations. These days men are attracted to women who are smart, intelligent, and capable in their own right. Learn how to spark laughter using your wits; this will make your relationship more interesting.
3. Always tell the truth
Trust is the glue that holds a relationship together in the worst storms. Dishonesty poisons relationships; its effects may not be seen immediately, but fate always rears its ugly head. Be open and honest with your partner to establish and maintain trust, which is the foundation of a healthy relationship. 
4. Be caring and affectionate
Men like to be cared for, inject some affection into your relationship, and reap the beautiful rewards. Watch your man recognize you for who you are: an affectionate woman who is not ashamed to show her love and concern. Don’t hide your affection, show him care, and support.
5. Be a right-hand man
No one likes carrying the load of a relationship alone, and sharing the responsibilities brings both parties closer together. Unlike women, most men find it difficult to open up about their problems. Try to support him no matter what he may be going through and show that you are there in case he needs help.
6. Keep your humor
You don’t have to be a comedian to inject some humor into a conversation. There’s nothing more desirable than a woman with a positive outlook on life and a great sense of humor. Men like being with women who know how to maintain their positivity and make them laugh in the most challenging situations.
7. Keep the spark alive
Keep the romance in your relationship, and it will remain a happy one. This can be as simple as stealing a kiss while he’s working or purchasing a super-sexy pair of thongs for the bedroom. You could also surprise him by cooking his favorite dish or buying something he always wanted.
8. Believe in yourself
There’s nothing more appealing than a woman who knows her worth. If you respect yourself, your man will respect you too. Understand what you want out of every situation so no one can take advantage of you. Men want a woman who can steer the ship when they are away from home. 
9. Learn to keep your mouth shut
It is true that women tend to talk more than men, and while this could be important in maintaining communication, it is also essential to ensure that secrets remain secrets. Sharing his secrets with your friends is a sign of disrespect and one that few relationships survive.
Relationships are tough with many ups and downs. Sometimes things won’t work out, and that’s okay. Sometimes they just need a little more work. We hope these tips will help!
“9 Tips to Become the Woman No Man Can Leave“, Gotta Do The Right Thing.
“9 Tips To Become The Woman No Man Can Leave“, Inspire 2 Day. November 2019.