Your zodiac sign can help to reveal a lot about your personality. It may not control your destiny or the track of your future, but believe it or not, a good horoscopy analysis can help you figure out so much about yourself.
Let’s face it – we can’t all be shiny, warm, and gentle human beings at the same time. There are a lot of us that are simply cold-hearted and it doesn’t necessarily translate to being bad. Cold people simply do not show emotions. They are often unfriendly, unsympathetic, unfeeling, and very much out of touch with their emotions. It’s usually a defense mechanism to keep themselves from getting hurt. You won’t get hurt if you can’t feel hurt, right? Thus, they powerfully suppress their emotions and show no warmth to the people around them, and this is why the term “cold as ice” can be rightly used to describe certain people.
Cold-hearted people often find it very difficult to relate with others, and as such, they have a hard time in romantic and even familial relationships. People find them so emotionally unavailable that it only takes a person who genuinely loves and understands them to break down these intimidating walls. They can be so distant the people believe they are either depressed or lonely, but in reality, they just want to be left alone.
Below are the 5 of the most cold-hearted zodiac signs in astrology, and why they are so unfeeling [1].
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
The last person to talk to if you’re emotionally distressed is an Aquarian. Aquarians prefer to keep their troubles to themselves and they appreciate it when other people hold the same ideals around them. Everyone is better off dealing with their own problems on their own. They don’t relish being anyone’s shoulder to cry on, which often makes them come off as very strongly cold, and even mean sometimes.
On their best and worst days, they are being perfectly okay with being called cold. They just don’t care.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Geminis are so unpredictable that they are easily categorized as ‘unstable’. One moment, they are all kind and friendly, welcoming, and cheerful. The next, they switch things down to zero degrees and begin to act like the entire world is against them.
Geminis use the cold aspect of their personality as a weapon – usually for vengeance. If you hurt them or someone they love, they’d treat you so coldly that you’d wish you’d never betrayed them. It doesn’t matter what your reasons were because they are not even going to ask. You failed them, so they’ll keep you where you belong for as long as their coldness can hold out.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
It might be tough to believe this one because Cancers are widely known for sheltering a bedrock of emotions. They are often very feeling, but one thing most people don’t know is that they only show what they want to show. The truest of their emotions are cloaked and they use a cold-hearted behavior to shield their most vulnerable feelings.
One peculiar thing about them is their unnerving inability to let things go. Cancers have a very hard time forgiving and just like Geminis, they weaponize their cold personality when they sense betrayal and targeted slights. If you hurt them, you’re dead to them and no matter how hard you try, there’s no way to fix things at this point.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgos are a bit different from the other cold zodiacs because they are not always aware that they are reacting coldly toward others. They are often very proud people who are easily convinced that they are better than everyone else. It takes a lot of good nature to not get intoxicated by these thoughts and start acting rudely to people you believe are lesser, and Virgos simply lack the required good nature.
Virgos are overachievers. They are highly focused people who are always eager to learn and be filled with knowledge. This tendency often makes them feel like no one can’t compare to their energy, so they tend to shun people a lot. They usually don’t know they are doing this, and as narcissistic as it sounds, they have little patience for other people who they believe are far too flawed and imperfect.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorns are a lot easier to deal with than the rest because their cold nature is a full-blown defense mechanism. They have more control over it than others and can decide when to channel it and when to keep it at bay. Capricorns are highly goal-oriented and are so focused on success that they believe showing emotions can derail them from their targets. So, they prefer to mask their feelings with an unfeeling attitude just to keep their heads in the game.
References
- “The 5 Most Uncaring Zodiac Signs Who Are As Cold As Ice.” Your Tango. Retrieved October 2, 2020.